Re: [MLUG - DISCUSSION] Sympathies

[Jennifer Dozar <EMAIL:PROTECTED>]

Well, it wasn't my boss trying to hurt me. My boss and his boss love me.
And this guy has honestly just been the worst person to basically
everybody. I wonder if I could still file some sort of grievence with my
HR person for his verbal abuse. I had thought about that over the
weekend, but Monday came, and I got laid off before I could do anything
about his nastiness from Friday.  And I truly believe that this guy WILL
get what is coming to him. I just had to be sacrificed first ;) My
boss's boss was getting slack because HIS people were never written up
or punished. But we're a really good bunch. I was the scape goat for
that one too because i was late ONE day to a meeting (just one of those
bad mornings... ya know) i was only like 15 minutes late. but they wrote
me up because of that one day... ALL because some guy that works with
the Creep in Reno, who works with my Boss's Boss complained... so since
I was late to that ONE meeting, I got written up.  Apparently it was all
supposed to be for show.  But I'm the one who got the axe when the Creep
pulled his shit again. 

I will probably make sure, double dog sure!, i send a card to everyone,
or at least the NOC, i worked with for holidays!  I really liked them
alot.  I interviewed for another job today. My friend had a "person" in
this staffing place who apparently was looking for a unix/linux person.
so she's setting me up an interview with this company for that position.
So things are at least coming back positively already for me. She also
told me of another job that is unix/linux is opening up end of the
month... and pointed me to zappos.com for a systems admin job that
looked like a good possibility. I feel better now. I saw a girl i used
to work with at my Weight Watchers meeting today. :) It was really great
to see her. And I saw an old friend of mine, Steve, on my way to the
gym. and everyone at the NOC gave me hugs before I left after getting my
stuff this morning.  So, all in all, even tho it's crappy day, it's been
a good day too. And tomorrow, I shall go see Mike and Val in Utah and
enjoy their company! 

I'm starting to Ramble :)  Thank you everyone. Things should start
looking up. at least I have my weekends back!! Maybe my boyfriend willa
ctually spend time with me ;) (he was the one wh owas most hurt by my
new schedule...) I should start feeling lots better in the next few
days. I did kickboxing tonight too, so i think that helped with some of
the stress. 

Jenn

On Tue, May 08, 2007 at 08:50:00PM -0500, Christian M. Cepel wrote:
> You've mine, and I hope you land on your feet.  I hope for you what 
> happened for me.... namely that I ended up someplace I never would have 
> gone had it not happened to me, that new place being beyond my limited 
> ken on how much better things could actually be.
> 
> I'm sure a lot of people will tell you things like, "He'll get his", and 
> "What goes around comes around", and "Karma", but I gotta say, don't 
> hang your hat on it because I think the opposite is more often true 
> because it's a rum world.  I hope for you that you find justice and that 
> that justice is not that he get his comeuppance (though there would be 
> nothing wrong with that if he did), but rather that you'll end up in 
> such a better situation that you'll actually want to thank him in your 
> mind for his small-mindedness because it benefited you so greatly.   I 
> still symbolically send a Christmas card to my former boss in my mind 
> every Christmas and laugh inwardly at how his petty attempt to hurt me 
> was so beneficial.
> 
> Good luck.
> 
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> Computer Support Specialist, Sr. - University of Missouri - Columbia
> College of Education - School of Info Science & Learning Technologies
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